Your decision to engage in counseling is to be appreciated and honored as it often involves vulnerability, courage, and commitment to personal work.It is important that you feel heard, understood, and accepted for who you are and what you have already experienced. I view my role as giving you the support, safety, caring, and respect you deserve while facilitating you doing that for yourself. I will also provide cognitive, emotional, and behavioral models, “tools” and experiences to enhance your self-awareness, self-expression, and self-care and help you learn to trust in your basic goodness and wisdom. Through exploration and enhanced experiences in counseling you will gain insight and clarity, and feel more connected and compassionate with yourself and others. This will allow you to better meet your personal goals, engage in healthier and caring behaviors, and attain greater harmony and balance in your life.
I have been in private practice in Counseling and Psychotherapy for over 35 years. I have continued to study and learn throughout my career. I consider it an honor and am deeply committed to providing the people I work with a safe, healing space for them to grow, learn, and heal. During the years I have chosen to study, in depth, therapy models that have benefited me in my own development. Cognitive Behavior Therapy, Gestalt Therapy, Family Systems Therapy and presently Internal Family Systems are examples of therapies that have become an integrated whole in my present work. Research has shown that independent of the model of therapy employed, the therapist's relationship with the individual, couple, or family is the most important variable in a positive outcome. I encourage you to find a therapist that fits you, someone with whom you are comfortable, makes sense to you, and you feel respected and heard. When someone is new to therapy they can discount their own perceptions and feelings.It is often useful to see several therapists for a session or two to see how they work for you.I encourage questions and openness in a relationship in which you feel “unconditional positive regard” (Rogers, C.) from the therapist. Being in counseling is a journey. It is very important that you feel supported and not judged by the person you are working with.